There are many resources are available to consider the myriad ways of approaching and managing death. Here are some of my favorites:
How to find a death doula
Organizations and Informational Sites
Compassion and Choices - Advanced Planning Guide & Toolkit to start getting your thoughts and needs on paper
The Order of the Good Death - information, links and articles on building a meaningful, equitable and eco-friendly end of life
Five Wishes - a simple advance directive form available in digital or paper form
Stanford Letter Project - another tool to help get your wishes, thoughts and bucket list documented
Death Cafe - a group-directed discussion regarding death with no agenda or objectives
Funeral Consumers Alliance - a non-profit offering consumer support, information and advocacy for legislative change